Why You Shouldn’t Be “The Friend”
Lounging around in bed in the morning and early afternoon is an awesome time. I’ve been trying to get to bed at a reasonable hour so I can get up early and enjoy my break but due to launching this blog and several other things that hasn’t been happening. This equates to lounging.
So I’m being lazy and I get a call from FlossYourTeeth. I forget exactly what she called to talk about. I happen to mention that I was in bed being lazy and she proclaimed she was coming over.
I unlock the door, go back to bed and send her a text saying to let herself in and come upstairs. 10 minutes later she’s in my bed and we’re talking.
She tells me about her Montreal trip. It’s going to be FlossYourTeeth, her engaged friends and her guy friend who we’ll call Pat all going in one car.
Pat apparently asked her the other day if they could turn the Montreal trip into kind of a date. FlossYourTeeth declined, I laugh at this.
Apparently she went out drinking with Pat last night and he got a bit touchy feely rubbing her back. She felt uncomfortable and went to the bathroom and when she came back she sat next to her other friend.
Why am I telling you this story? Aspiring seducers, pickup artists and ladies men around the world don’t be this guy! Don’t be Pat who got locked in the friend’s zone and then tried to break out and make his move once his fate is already sealed.
Do yourselves a favor and make your move before you get locked into the friends zone. Don’t hide your intentions. Don’t think that you can ease your way into her pants by always being there for her or by being her crying shoulder.
She’s not going to dump the jerk for you when she realizes how amazing you are. This isn’t the movies. She’s going to be in bed WITH the jerk telling him about your attempts. And he will laugh. I know I did.
Move on. I know she may seem like she’d be perfect for you. Or maybe that you’d be perfect for her. It’s not true. You’re going to save yourself a lot of heartache if you start over, the right way, with someone new.
Remember. Attract her before you attempt rapport.
Pat if you read this, and you recognize yourself. Get in touch with me. I want to help.
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