Fools Mate
I’ve been doing a ton of thinking about the concept of fools mate lately and was planning on writing a huge groundbreaking post on how it doesn’t really exist. But I came to the conclusion that a short blog post would cover it quite nicely.
Notice how no glossaries define fools mate. It’s a bullshit community myth. It’s a blanket statement used to dismiss or cheapen an exceedingly simple or fast lay. You’ll often find haters, KJ’s, Pickup Wannabe’s or jealous men using this term. It’s a way for those who can’t see the subcommunications or “don’t fuck it up” moments to shrug off results that they can’t understand or comprehend.
For our purposes let us define fools mate as the act of chalking up a lay with no regards to “real game”.
Fools mate, by definition does not exist. This is because there is ALWAYS a reason why SHE chose YOU. ALWAYS! She didn’t sleep with the nerd playing video games at home. Alternatively she didn’t sleep with the jock down the bar from you.
You HAD to do something to progress the lay. Mind you, it may not have been something major. It could have been the way you dress (which was a conscious choice by you), or the way you held yourself (which you worked on). There’s ALWAYS a reason because she ALWAYS has to pick you over some other guy.
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Alternatively, guys will also use the fools mate excuse if they sleep with a girl but don’t have good enough end game to to keep her around.
“Oh it was just fools mate, that’s why she won’t call me back.”
Wrong. If a girl sleeps with you in an absurdly short time she will backwards rationalize that there must have been something incredibly special about you. It’s your job to make sure that you place the proper frames and run the right kind of game to keep her around. I am still in touch with the girl from my 20 minute lay. She constantly sends me text messages and is planning on flying across the country to come hang out for a week next month. Why? Because my post-sex game is tight. I’ve never had a one night stand because of it, the girls always want to stick around. This is something I’ll write about more in the future.
My end point is that fools mate under any circumstance is a myth. It’s a method of dismissing game for guys who have none. Stop using this term.
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