Why Pickup Artistry Makes The World A Better Place
It is in my strong opinion that pickup arts make the world a better place. There is so much good and so little bad that comes from it that it would be hard to argue against such a statement.
Men don’t have it easy in this world. We are pillars of support, often looked at for example and yet often scoffed at for our behavior. According to this woman “men are suffering”.Â
Men are finally able to ask for help in regards to their lives. They can ask for dating advice and get an answer other than the often fatally misinterpreted “be yourself”. They can look to other men who have attraction and dating down to a science, rather than women who give answers based off intuition and misguided ideologies.  Men can finally get their love lives under control, raising a sometimes non-existant pillar for their lives. More than ever they can pursue and obtain happiness.
Now, who are the men who pursue pickup arts? Are they the players of the world? The mysogynists? Speaking for the vast majority of PUA’s, I’m going to say no. The majority of men who pursue pickup art are the “nice guys”. They are the men who would buy the flowers, take a woman to dinner, treat her like a princess and then at the end of the night be told that they should “just be friends”. They’re the men who endlessly dream of the beautiful, smart, talented and loving girlfriend and yet never knew how to approach her or how to show her that he could be “the one”. These men love women, and that’s why they want the skillset to be able to have them in their lives. These are the men I teach.
Imagine a world where the nice guy (turned into an attractive man) who appretiates a woman for more than her looks finally gets the girl instead of the asshole who she’d previously go for.  That’s the world I’m trying to build.Â
So what does this mean for women? Well women could now find themselves with men who make them feel real. Men who admire their personality and take the fact that they’re beautiful out of the equation. Men who would treat them right and still not be boring to the point where the woman has to cheat to find a thrill. Men who they could fall in love with, for real.
What could this mean for relationships and society? Lower divorce rates? Smarter relationships where people care about each other? Kids being raised by fathers capable of raising them? A more liberal view on sexuality and a world where women are allowed to be curious of it? A realignment of the gene pool? The possibilities are limitless. All or none of this could happen. This industry could change the world or it could be a fad. No one knows.
I see nothing but a better world developing because of pickup arts. I see a place filled with love instead of fear. I see a trend towards acceptance and support rather than shame and embarressment. I picture a world where men can finally be their best selves and have women love them for it.
I see blue skies, sunshine and lollypops.
A happy and optimistic Orleans, out.
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I think it is great that the pickup arts gives men confidence to approach women and the motivation to strive towards continuous improvement. I have a few points to make:
1) “Men who admire their personality and take the fact that they’re beautiful out of the equation.” If this is the case, then why are targets rated on a HB scale?
2) How can men in this community fall in love when they are dating multiple women and always approaching new ones?
3) How are women supposed to trust the men they are dating knowing about the community?
While your post points to the positive aspects of pickup artistry, it fails to point out the negative ones. And with more people learning about the seduction community and being involved with men who call themselves puas, it can in fact turn into something ugly if not handled properly.